So girls, do you have to have a guy with muscles?

I'm a 16 year old and I've had this question on my mind for quite a while. I really am a skinny ******. I'm about 5'10'' and 130 lbs. or so. Not exactly a body builder. I trained with a home gym for an entire year, to get a decent four pack and to find out that I really should have been using weights because the muscle mass you gain is so much more. I stopped working out and its been two months. I'm still around my same weight, but there's barely anymore four pack and my arms are still average (not bulk).

Without being cocky or conceded, I'm pretty funny and I have a good looking face. I had wicked cool long hair but I cut it and now its more of a medium-short length. It's still awesome but I refuse to gel it because that's just not my style. I guess I just need to get the confidence of knowing that muscles aren't needed and then I can get my game rolling. I live in a suburban NY town where tanning bed guidos are a dime a dozen so this probably has something to do with my question

So girls, do you have to have a guy with muscles?

Women love confidence, man. Trust me. If you can be confident about what you've got, you'll do fine. I'm 23, I'm 6'1" 175, and very slim. When my friends are moving out of their house and I offer to help, they say they can probly handle it on their own and call my friend who was an ex-football player, ha. But I get more *** than all of them because I know how to use my intelligence and my attitude. You seem like a bright kid, girls like attention being paid to THEM rather than to yourself. Trust me. You're gonna do fine kid.

Craig

So girls, do you have to have a guy with muscles?

brains are more important than muscles

So girls, do you have to have a guy with muscles?

you have no chance. posting this on yahoo answers just tells people that you are a large douche bag. congrats ******

So girls, do you have to have a guy with muscles?

Personally, I dig the skinny guys. :)

But, in all seriousness, NY is just full of fake people, anyway. You can't try to be someone you're not just to fit up to their standards. Also, if you want to find a girl, find one with a good head on her shoulders...and not two on her chest.

So girls, do you have to have a guy with muscles?

nah. doing 50 crunches a day is enough. No need for expensive euiptment. I actually dont like muscles very much...they're a little intimidating. you sound fine, skinny, but fine.

So girls, do you have to have a guy with muscles?

Well, you sound pretty HOTT!!!

That's MYY type of guy!!!

I think that's the hottest look in the world.......

But, noo, or do watever you want, Idc.......

So girls, do you have to have a guy with muscles?

there really is no difinitive answer 4 that diffrent girls want diffrent guys it sometimes doends on there personality..for me the guys i like look good and healthy and have a great personality. as long as u feel good about ureself then mayb someone out there will fall for u

So girls, do you have to have a guy with muscles?

Relax....I am a guy.....there is a lid for every pot...you will do fine

So girls, do you have to have a guy with muscles?

my bf dont have muscles but i still luv him

So girls, do you have to have a guy with muscles?

I don't care about muscles.. Why look at a packs of muscle anyway??

So girls, do you have to have a guy with muscles?

nah.

i dont need a guy with muscles.

as long as his flab isnt giggling all over the place you shold be iight

So girls, do you have to have a guy with muscles?

abs pecs biceps triceps, all ugotta work, 100 situps with weights every otehr day, curls, n then tricep/chest dumbell excercies also,

Listen no matter what they say most r. Do ulike a girl with large watever, they do too

Workout 3 times a week for like an hr and ull se results. eat right too but if u wanna get seriosu look up workout program online, or look up some easy excercies

Its not all important but it helps, the good looking huge guy will get a number alot quick but itsnot impossible for not big guys to, u just gotta show ur otehr appealign qualties, intelligence humor etc

It doesnt hurt to get muscular n in better shape, as the saying goes "Curls for girls"

So girls, do you have to have a guy with muscles?

no way.. really guys who look like giant steroids kind of bother me...

you sound like a cool guy so dont worry about it not all girls are into muscle

So girls, do you have to have a guy with muscles?

physically, you sound like a good friend of mine. he's tall, lanky, and has a bit of a 4-pack. i used to have a crush on him and he has practically no muscle. I honestly have more muscle then him. but hey, was still attracted to him then. but now i'm dating a guy who worked out like mad (but doesn't do it as much anymore). lol.

you dont have to work out or whatever to get a girl even though many guys do. there's bound to be someone who's going to like you.

So girls, do you have to have a guy with muscles?

Lets be honest...most relationships start with physical attraction....but not all relationships last just because of it...after a while, you look for something else in a partner aside from his looks...what's important is that you are compatible, meaning you have common ground, like you like the same things....

not all girls are shallow and look for guys who have muscles...they'd rather have someone who takes care of them and makes them feel special...

same way...i think guys should also look past a girl's looks...a person may not be a looker but she might have something else that makes her special.